Quiet: The Power of Introverts In a World That Can't Stop Talking

By Susan Cain

How did society change from valuing integrity & courage to rewarding brashness & self-promotion?  This book researches how organizations like Harvard Business School encourage extroversion at the expense of quiet, rational thought.  The author also explains why "cult of the personality" megachurches, and self help gurus are taking over society.

One third of the population is made up of introverts, so why don't schools and jobs allow for solitary individualism?  Mostly, it's easier for teachers to use group projects to teach, and it's cheaper to have employees brainstorm  and work collectively, but most of the time the loudest are not the smartest.  Plus, while there's nothing wrong with confidence, it's not a comfortable fit for everyone.

The book also explains how to "fake" extroversion in order to deal with life.  Having spent my life doing just that, I was happy to know I'm not the only one pretending that I am upbeat and comfortable in new situations.